Teach your children to be authentic instead of teaching them to be happy.
Why not to have outcome focused parenting (trying to raise happy, successful children) and how this can keep them from being in touch with their feelings.How punishment and learning are opposed and how to actually help them learn.Why she claims that our children don’t owe us respect (and I agree).Developmentally appropriate ways to nurture this in our children.Ways to teach our children to carry to oars of their own saving.How showing up as the savior disempowers them and makes things tougher in the long run.What a savior complex is and how it harms our relationship with our children.The three reasons children misbehave: lack of skill, lack of life experience, lack of worth and how to help each of these.Looking for Signs: Something inside gone negative.Why kids aren’t trying to be disrespectful and when we fail to understand what is going on under the behavior, we create more of their behavior.Anytime you perceive it as a loss of control, you are going to lose control.How to depersonalize interactions with our kids to calm the situation.No human being likes to be controlled and how this control backfires with children.How parents accidentally create the cycle of dysfunction in families.The chaos and nonsense we can create as parents without realizing it.How we can move away from control and into connection with our kids.Why she wrote this parenting book and how this one is the how-to for parents.I really enjoyed recording today’s episode and I hope you’ll join us and listen in! Episode Highlights With Dr. Shefali’s work so helpful and it resonates with my own parenting style as well. Plus what to do when they’re having big emotions or acting out. Shefali covers how we can model what we want to see in our children so they want to come alongside us as willing participants.
We talk about why our children don’t owe us anything (a controversial statement!). If you’ve ever wished your kids came with a manual, this is it! And even if you don’t read the book, there’s still a lot of helpful knowledge in today’s conversation. Shefal shares details on why she wrote this book for parents and why it’s so powerful when it comes to developing healthy relationships with our children. And she just came out with her newest book, The Parenting Map.ĭr. Shefali, a clinician psychologist, and New York Times bestselling book author. Subscribe: Amazon | Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | Listen Notes | Pandora | RSS | Spotify | Spreaker | Stitcher | TuneIn | YouTube | iHeartRadioĪs a mom of several kids myself, I’m really excited to share today’s episode with you! It’s all about parenting and how we can consciously create the ultimate parent and child relationship. Shefali, Katie Wells | Download transcript
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